Lord have mercy! This is just insane. I feel sorry for this woman, celebrity Nicky Hilton, but oh. my. gosh. I don’t care WHAT is in fashion when you are a teen Little One, but you
ARE NOT GOING OUT OF THE HOUSE IN ANYTHING REMOTELY LIKE THIS.
And this was just days before this woman’s wedding day, where she chose a much more flattering dress (thank goodness).
But the damage was already done to her reputation. It was reported (and maybe caught on camera?) that she accidentally FLASHED people in the first dress… again, just days before her wedding :O 😦 . You may think that because she found maybe a good man that you can pull this off, too, but no… don’t even try that. She’s rich, Sweetie, and you’re not a millionaire heiress lol!
No husband wants a woman who was flashing the public due to her stupidity in wearing an immodest dress, so it calls into question the kind of man she’s secured.
Think about it. Coming from the man’s perspective, he’s marrying a woman who just flashed the public (and possibly the world) days before their wedding. How would his family react to seeing that published?
“A beautiful woman who lacks discretion,
is like a gold ring in a pig’s snout.”
You’re going to have to get used to us saying “No,” when it comes to crazy fashion ideas or teen shenanigans in order to protect you. A lot of it is going to be protecting you from yourself, in a way, because sometimes women seem to lack any shred of common sense!
Being Christian, this should bother the body of Christ and be something that’s talked about.
Dressing immodest just screams you want sexual attention
Over the years, it really has proven itself over and over again to me, that even the most modest seeming woman (no matter her age I think), seems to desire attention. This happens even if she’s not aware of it consciously, but probably most are aware of it, and just suppress it or lie to themselves that it’s not that bad. Even, unfortunately, sexual attention that is truly inappropriate. This shows itself in different ways depending on the woman, but again, I’ve found this to be true across the board, no matter who you’re dealing with.
Dressing immodestly exacerbates this issue, and takes it to a whole new level of shameless advertising of one’s feminine body. It really is making it obvious to men (and other women, who will not like it) that you are seeking sexual attention overtly.
You’ll scare the good men away
But perhaps the main reason this topic is so important for you to understand, is because if you do decide to dress like this once you’re grown up, you WILL NOT be attracting the kind of men who are of good character. The kind of men who will make good, trustworthy husbands who actually have integrity.
To put it plainly, you’ll scare the good men away, and rightfully so, because good Christian men DO NOT want a woman (or wife) who dresses like a prostitute!
I feel like this should be a given, and I know you’ll grow up hearing this rationally and practically so much that you’ll probably feel like this is a given, too, but apparently in our world, even Christian women like yourself should be allowed to wear skintight apparel, or spaghetti strap tops around men in public, or mini skirts, or a myriad of other immodest selections. You will see as you grow up, that even in the church it is becoming “taboo” to enforce any kind of dress code, which DOES NOT benefit the fellow Christians (not the young men or older men, and certainly not the women who dress this way at Church).
So it’s either that you’ll scare the good men away, or they’ll just use you in a weak moment. One thing for certain is that dressing like this will attract men of bad character. Or it will encourage men of good character, to view YOU as having bad character.
Whichever way you look at it, it’s just not good for you, Sweet One.
Quick Link List
- Sigma Frame’s Why Are Christian Women Known as Whores?
- Wintery Knight’s Lori Alexander is Right, Serious Christian Men Debt-Free Virgins w/o Tattoos