This is going to be a really short post, I may (but may not) write more on it later, just depends since we’re entering a REALLY busy time for our family with all the holidays coming up soon and various events we need to attend.
But I just wanted to write something quick in response to this idea that wives can’t work through issues – even very major issues – with their husband.
This post is for women who believe their situation is “hopeless,” because it contains a major key I’ve used in my own life and in helping other women realize what to do when they have no idea what else to try.
It REALLY really works. And this kind of information is what my mother raised me understanding and living out from the time I was 12!
There are many who will tell you that having a good marriage is just good fortune or that you’ve been really fortunate to have picked someone perfect for you – or who you can at least “submit to.”
“A happy marriage: That’s a pretty subjective term to be sure, but when you hear about your good fortune often enough, you learn not to take it for granted. If you’re smart, you know full well not to take credit for that, and just count your blessings.”
Yes, it’s very very true that you need to be grateful – so grateful – for having a good, happy marriage. But it’s also not wrong to realize that certain things you’ve done or things you’ve chosen to change about your behavior, have been a credit to creating that happy marriage. I’m sure Elspeth knows this, but saying it in the way she did, leads men and women to believe that seeing someone else’s good fortune and happiness in marriage is all due to chance or luck, or some other factor. It leads to believing only the lucky ones got the good deal.
And that’s just not true.
In reality, marriage largely depends upon the WIFE’S behavior ❤
Here is a starting reading material for anyone interested in finding help for their hopeless situation. I’m not special… ANYONE can manage to understand these truths and learn them, then when they’re ready, walk another woman through them when she may need some help.
Here is reading material, happy reading!