I’ve been thinking a lot about perspective … in general, having the right attitude toward life and people, a sense of the long-term as well as being present in the now. Perspective that births forth the much needed character development and perseverance able to get us through various life seasons. I’m talking about seasons of all kinds, seasons of growth, seasons of waiting, pain, blessings, loss, and renewal.
Things like infertility, miscarriage, job loss, mental illness, your kids having a hard time in school or enduring sickness, relocations, new jobs, new churches – anything that we may all face in one way or another, or help friends who are in that season. Do we keep a godly perspective on these things? Are we prepared to face them when life throws them our way?
Its been on my mind lately, how important it is that we are sowing in the different seasons of our lives, and not sitting stagnantly by in times of hardship, or when our cup is overflowing. Even in the most difficult times, we need to be actively sowing into our families things that we will eagerly await to reap when the time comes. It matters so much, what we choose to sow.
Blessed is the man who trusts in the LORD And whose trust is the LORD.
For he will be like a tree planted by the water, that extends its roots by a stream,
And will not fear when the heat comes;
But its leaves will be green,
And it will not be anxious in a year of drought
Nor cease to yield fruit.
What do you want to sow?
In our family, I want to actively sow goodness, faithfulness, hard work, optimism, perseverance, joy, patience, kindness, peace, teamwork, and affectionate love. I’m always being watched by my children, in a very real way, this knowledge that I’m being watched and looked up to by them in order for them to learn these valuable life lessons through example (my example), keeps me accountable. I’d better do right by them, they deserve no less!
Its a constant feeling of excitement that God is growing me, maturing me, into someone better than before – better than last year, better than the year before that. Constantly evolving, having a clear picture of the kind of woman I want to be. Its not an anxious pressure that I feel breathing down my neck or anything, but more of an appreciative anticipation towards maturity.
You reap what you sow.
“Sow with a view to righteousness, Reap in accordance with kindness; Break up your fallow ground, For it is time to seek the LORD Until He comes to rain righteousness on you. You have plowed wickedness, you have reaped injustice, You have eaten the fruit of lies Because you have trusted in your way, in your numerous warriors, “
I love the analogy of reaping and sowing, of planting seeds in soil, even the soil itself matters. Is it fertile soil? Is it receptive, rocky, or too acidic? The soil represents our hearts, and what we sow matters just as much as the purity that is already present in our hearts in order to receive it. Sowing, in a broader sense, is more than merely planting seeds, its taking the time to tend and nurture those seeds and seedlings. Its taking care to nourish the soil, making sure it has the right nutrients that it needs in order to be receptive, as well as the seedlings under our care.
Its important as Christians that we are sowing responsibly – spending our time, money, and resources on what is benefiting our personal (spiritual) growth. Are we going where we’re supposed to go? Are we engaging in activities that are helping us to become better women of God (or men of God)? Or are we doing things that are counter to what we desire to be sown? Are we falling by the wayside and letting our life just pass us by? What am I personally sowing into my life, and as a result, the life of my children?
There are different seasons of time when you can focusing more on sowing, or reaping … or both…. we’ve entered into a very busy life season, with my son going to an exciting but difficult school, being involved in a sports team way more intense than your average YMCA, raising a new baby, managing home and social life, doing something (hello, anything) with my shop, and planning on getting pregnant again next year.
The school and sports are what are really life changing… this school is difficult, and will take a lot of time, but hopefully will be worth it for him if he enjoys it. The sports team is also a big change, as they’re going to have practices 3 nights a week. These people are hardcore and intense, the Y just wasn’t cutting it for him anymore because it was too easy, created a non-competitive environment where even the worst kids got trophies, or only provided unknowledgeable coaching. We’re waiting to see if the busy schedule will work out well, trying to keep a balance and peace sown into our life is a high priority.
Lots of changes… a very busy life season! Yet even with all the new change, or the constant spending of our time and energy into these activities, I still need to be aware of what I’m sowing into our life, no matter the season.
As far as school, my son loving it, and having a blast just being there… I told him that i missed him that first day (and again after the first week) and he just said, “Well, Mom, I haven’t thought of you at all!”
YES!!!!! GOAL ACCOMPLISHED!!!!
I would so much rather he be so involved, so focused and happy there that he forget me and not worry about him missing me. Even days later though, I still miss him. I miss his loudness… his happiness… his crazy energy. Our classroom/game room just is not the same without our oldest in it. And I really really miss him.
But I am so elated that he doesn’t miss me… not even a little bit! 😀
I’ve spent these past two years pouring time and effort into teaching him in the mornings just to prepare him for going to “big school.” I’m so proud of him, but I’m proud at what he’s accomplished in the past two years as well. I’ve spent two years sowing discipline, love of learning, practice of writing, math, reading, a little science and geography/culture, and music, and now he’s more than ready to take on Kinder. And he’s taking it on with a happy attitude!
He had his first homework yesterday, and he finished his daily homework for Monday within about 1 minute. I was shocked, but I shouldn’t have been really – it was very easy compared to the level he’s attained with me at home. He was already doing first grade activities when he was 4 years old. He was elated that it was so easy, so he went on to complete his packet for the rest of the week’s homework in one sitting! I’ve created a scholastic monster!
His heart has been prepared, I tried very hard to make sure I made learning pleasant and fun, setting him up for success back then – the small successes – and in hindsight, it was really setting himself up for future success by learning to love school and become a high-achiever. He enjoys doing homework (hopefully that can last through his teens lol 😛 ). He seems to be reaping what we’ve been sowing in his heart and mind, and it touches my heart, making me want to double down my efforts and apply this lesson in other ares of our lives.
I want to sow kindness, so that he will learn to be kind.
I want to sow discipline, so that he can learn the immeasurable importance of having discipline in his life.
I want to sow joy in his heart, so that he can carry it into his future and weather the storms that will come.
And so much more.