The other day I bought some dark chocolate, an iced vanilla coffee, and a Sweet Sangria candle. I was excited to again have a candle to light in the mornings when I wake up. Simple things like that mean so much to me, especially during this busy life phase of raising small children. Someone always needs something, it’s a never-ending job until they’re asleep around 8pm ❤ but it’s beautiful.
Whenever I’m stressed or tempted to let the busyness get the best of me, I find myself going to God with my complaints and issues, and come away with the peace and fullness of a heart of Gratitude. I’m reminded of my blessings in this beautiful life. I’m so grateful for them, grateful for a house to clean and keep up with, grateful that we have so many dishes… grateful for a husband who adores me! But with the loudness and craziness of a busy and full life, comes the necessity of knowing when to light that candle in the evening, have a dessert or a glass of wine, and just slow down a bit.
I found a treasure of a book a couple of weekends ago that was in a bulk of books being given away for free. Free books! Love ❤ ! Here is another excerpt from the Art of Living, this is The Art of Relaxation… welcome to my living room, sit down, stay awhile, put on some beautiful music, and relax.
Modern man must learn to break the tensions of daily living or the tensions will break him.
He must learn to bend with the stresses and strains like a tree in the wind. He must develop the resiliency of spirit to spring erect again after the storm has passed.
He first relaxes his mind by thinking thoughts of peace, quietness and tranquility. He mentally pictures the placid pool amidst whispering pines and puts himself in tune with nature’s calming mood.
He strives to carry an inner serenity with him so that even amidst a whirl of activity he will not lose his poise. He learns “to cooperate with the inevitable” and he accepts life with faith in the ultimate triumph of right and good.
He relaxes his body by imitating a lazy person – a boy on the beach in the sun – a man in a boat fishing. He takes a tip from the circus clown who says that the way he avoids being injured in his tumbles is by making his body become “like an old rag doll.”
He exercises – walks, stretches, works in the garden, plays golf – knowing that physical tiredness invites relaxation and sleep.
He knows that confusion is one of the chief causes of tension so he
organizes his work,
puts first things first,
does one thing at a time,
and develops a spaciousness of mind.
He uses the soothing beauty of great music to calm his nerves.
He observes that the face with a frown marks the tense person, and that the face with a smile is a symbol of relaxation, so he strives to meet life with a sense of humor. He learns not to take himself too seriously and to laugh at himself now and then.
He takes time for meditation. He accepts the wise counsel of Emerson, who wrote: “Place yourself in the middle of the stream of power and wisdom which animates all whom it floats, and you are without effort impelled to truth, to right and a perfect contentment.”
With our firstborn, almost 5 years ago!
He recognizes that relaxed living is a way of life and strives to manage body, mind, heart, and spirit as efficiently as he manages his business.