8 steps to confront your wife’s sexual refusal

Married Men: If your wife is denying you sex, forcing you to live within a sexless Christian marriage, you have the ability to confront her sin.

Biblical Gender Roles

How should you as a husband handle it when your wife directly refuses to have sex without a valid reason? Is there anything a Christian husband can do about this?

This will be my last post specifically about sexuality in this series on “How to be godly husband”.

Christian Husbands – let me be crystal clear here. The situation I am addressing in this post is not your wife occasionally turning you down for sex (even with a bad attitude, as opposed to for health or other legitimate reasons). What I am addressing here is the wife who consistently and routinely denies her husband sexually simply because she does not need sex as much or she thinks she should not have to do it except when she is in the mood or she thinks her husband should have to earn sex with her by “putting her in the mood” by…

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52 thoughts on “8 steps to confront your wife’s sexual refusal

  1. IB22 is free to say “If you make my car payment, I’ll give you head” but any guy who falls for that deserves the ensuing misery. His duty is to produce resources, her duty is to provide calculated sexual treats. Really, most men who have been around the block once have an extremely vulgar view of such trading dynamics: “If it’s flies, floats or f*cks: lease it, don’t buy it.”

    Granted, a lot of guys *do* think that being a plodding donkey on the resources treadmill is the avenue to respectability and marital bliss. Then they wonder why their wives take their money and still have a truly breathless affair with the sigma down the road, and whine a lot.

  2. IB22 is just promoting another “Man-up!” shaming tactic. Hers is “Man-up! I am entitled to your money. Can I have more if I tell you it makes you sexier?”

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