Why Women Don’t Want Nice Husbands

A great reminder of why women don’t want nice men, and how Christianity often sets men up for marital failure by telling them to be “nice.”

All Things Bright and Beautiful

After writing the article on why Women Don’t Want Nice Men, for singles, I decided that another article was needed in application to marriage, and exactly why women don’t really want to be married to “nice” husbands… or why they so often fall out of love with them.

Just like in the Single article, I want to point out that “nice” and “kind” are two different things; “Niceness exists because he feels he has to be that way, it’s forced and unnatural – women are not drawn to this.  Kindness is thoughtful and tender, it’s intentional, and much more of a turn-on.”

I explained in the Single article how Christianity in particular, often sets men up for failure in finding their true masculinity.  Men are told they have to be the spiritual leaders, but it’s clear that if they don’t go along with what their wife wants, they are…

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