This writer has been through the wringer, and has come out with wisdom and knowledge on marriage and sex. Its not surprising to me that he attributes wanting to be a better man to being fulfilled sexually by the woman he loves and is connected to. God’s design for marriage (a crucial part) was to have an amazing sex life, and I’m convinced that both men and women benefit from living this through.
To me there is a profound difference in meaningless sex, or sex just for the act of ejaculation and passionate sex with a woman who I really love, care about, and trust.
My married sex life lacked the passionate sex I so craved all of the time. I can count on my appendages the times that the sex was actually very good during my marriage. It was not like my wife was not hot, she was. She even tried to do things from time to time. However we just never had that chemistry, or if we did, something else was screwed up between us. I do blame a lot of our marriage problems of her feminist beliefs and her neo-Christianity. I still think that had she not joined a gyno-centric church we would have made it and had had a good marriage. Also she was very repressed about her own…
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