Guys, I have a brother, I understand (from a sister’s point of view) the pain and frustration there is when you feel in-adept at understanding women.  We (women) say one thing, and then go out and do another.  We flirt, we captivate, we use our own feminine kind of game to make you fall in love with us, only to cast you into the Friend Zone of epic frustration even after all your efforts to be “the Good Guy,” to be empathetic to us, and even when you are truly in love with us.  Why can’t women appreciate a man for who he is?  Why are women always complaining there are no good guys left, and yet, here you are, a good quality guy who would be the best boyfriend to her, yet she looks over at you with a patronizing smile and says, “But we’re such great Frieennds!”

Rollo Tomassi is the author of the book The Rational Male (Volume 1), and blogger of The Rational Male website.  His new book, The Rational Male Preventive Medicine (Volume 2), has just been released on Amazon for Kindle and paperback version.  He is a man who has truly taken an inordinate amount of his time and effort to write hundreds of posts and comments, all to earnestly & selflessly help men understand and win with women.  He writes in a sophisticated, educational style with a compassionate yet stark way of revealing the horrific truth of the behavioral psychology of women and men in various social structures and situations.

Rollo shows you how to optimize the way women interact in the world, he gives young (and old) men power in a very feminized culture where men are often seen as (and truly are) powerless.  His books that are focused on men wanting to avoid the major pitfalls of failing with women (in dating and marriage), will teach you that women love passionate men, driven men, men that have their own life mission and don’t make the girl herself their sole mission in life.  He’ll show you women love in a different way than men do, we simply think differently, and this isn’t a bad thing… it is simply biology and (in my opinion) how we’ve been designed by intent.  We have what I would say, “equal value” as people, but we weren’t designed equally for very critical reasons; instead, we are designed complementary.  Rollo points this out while diving in deep on various topics of how women’s sexual (dating and marriage) strategies are so difficult to understand for men who have been conditioned by a society to believe all women are trustworthy and will always be “morally better” sex.

If you’re having a hard time with the idea that a man should learn some kind of strategy when it comes to women, read Rollo’s considerate take on that,

One of the hardest things for anyone, male or female, to hear is that they need to change their lifestyle because it implies that their just ‘being themselves’ is in some way at fault for their present conditions. It’s analogous to telling someone they’re not living their lives ‘correctly’ or that they’re raising their kids wrong. If I have a friend that is shooting heroin and I actively encourage him to stop and make an effort to help him ‘clean up’, society calls me a hero or a savior. When I encourage my friend to quit smoking before she gets cancer, I’m a concerned good-friend helping my friend with a health risk behavior. But when I tell a friend he needs to change his approach to women and this is a reason for his unhappiness and he needs to change his outlook on, and approach with women, look better and feel better, then I’m a ‘shallow’ prick and insensitive to his ‘problem’. Worse still is even attempting to offer constructive criticism, in as positive a light possible, that a person can improve themselves by changing their outlook and modifying their behavior… (READ MORE of Just Be Yourself at Rollo’s site).

A word to married men, if your wife disregards your needs, treats you like an annoyance or like one of the children, jokes that you actually ARE her other child, you desperately need book one The Rational Male.  It will open your eyes to the subtle games your wife is playing, the way she is undermining your masculinity and leadership, and what you can practically do to gain your masculinity & leadership back in your marriage.  Rollo wants you to be able to live life in the best way that you, as a male, can, and a major part of that is finding out how to throw away everything you’ve ever heard about women, and embrace the cold, hard reality.

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